Animals, lovers, customers, all have one thing in common – more you chase them further they will run from you. Have you ever wondered why all your flights are on time but the one that you want to catch desperately, go home early and you are hoping it is exact on time, invariably it is late! Sometimes, when you meet a cute girl at a party and exchange numbers, you sit besides the phone all day next day but she does not call. The moment you start your day at work, she will call!
Whenever we are desperately involved – emotionally attached to a transaction or a happening, we obstruct it. It is said that whenever you are desperate for something to happen – husband to quit smoking, boss to promote you, a guy to like you etc, you are pushing them away because of your desperation and creating an energy around you which is pushing the desired outcome away from you. You need to positive without being too attached to a cause or a situation or else you will push it away
If you become too possessive and over attached to your spouse, spouse will feel claustrophobic in the relationship and she will start going away from you. There is a fine line between
It is thus imperative for us to be attached on a minimal level. This does not discount passion or love for somebody or something. Just, too much of it bogs down the other person. In the process of too much of attachment, you do not just spoil your own emotional quotient but also of the other person.
Maintain a fine balance between determination, attachment and