Most guys fail to pick up women because they approach them in the wrong way. The two most common ways that men hit on women are what I call the Frontal Assault and The Pitch 'n' Pray routines.
Frontal Assault is simply going up to a woman and sitting on her directly. While you get high marks for bravery, you have a high chance of failing with this routine because a woman's defenses immediately shoot up once she realizes she's being hit on. You see, women know what we really want from them. Being too direct makes them nervous so they just say no.
The Pitch 'n' Pray Routine is pretty pathetic (but even I used to do it before I became a master seducer). It involves going up to a woman and saying something lame like "hello", or asking her name. This not only bores her to death, but it makes you look like you have no self-confidence or imagination, and women are not attracted to men with no confidence.
If you want to have better luck in picking up and seducing women, you need to avoid the Frontal Assault and the Pitch 'n' Pray routines and do something else entirely.
Here are 3 things you need to do in order to seduce women:
1. Use humor – Women like a man with humor. Never be serious when approaching a woman. Go to her with an easy and cocky smile. Make your conversation easy and do not be afraid to make fun of yourself a little.
2. Ask for help – Women like to help. That's what nature intends for them: to be care givers. Asking a girl for her opinion on something which only she can help you with (like what to buy your small niece for her birthday) is an easy way to start a conversation.
3. Focus on her – Women like a man who listen to them because they think it means that that same man will also take care of them later on. When you talk to a woman you just met, let her do most of the talking. This will prevent you from saying something stupid and will make her feel important. Do not be totally speechless, just let her lead the way.
Do these 3 things when you approach a woman and you will have more results than you can imagine.