Strippers are real women just like you, but they have learned the secret combination to sexiness and have got it down to a fine art. You do not need a wig, fake tan, stilettos or professional lighting to make men eat out of the palm of your hand. External appearance can help, but it mostly comes down to confidence and attitude. You do not need bucket-loads of money either. Here are a few simple, yet minor tricks you can use to ooze sex appeal and unleash your inner sex kitten.
Sometimes it can be hard to pinpoint what makes a woman alluring. There's just something about the way she stands, moves or her intrinsic body language that says, 'Hey baby. I am a powerful and sexy woman. Come on over (meow …). ' At the root of this mysterious quality is self-confidence. To become sexy you need to build up your self-confidence. The best way to do this is to accept and love the body that God gave you (with a little perseverance, it's easier than it sounds). Believe me, not all men are attracted to Barbie doll look-a-likes. Your body is unique and you owe it to yourself to compliment and celebrate it.
Find ways to boost your self-confidence and your sexiness level will soar. One way you can do this is to focus on highlighting your best features. For example: If you have beautiful eyes, then apply cosmetics to enhance their impact. Another way to build self-confidence is to practice saying positive affirmations to yourself like, 'I am woman. Hear me roar! ' or 'I feel positive and vibrant everyday,' or 'I love my body. I feel sexy and voluptuous. '
The more you work on building your self-confidence, the more you'll notice your post improvement. Women who are confident and stand up straight, look and feel like they're ready to take on the world. So stand up straight and stick your breasts out. You will immediately get more attention and look more approachable. Your entire energy will change in a more positively sexy and assertive way.
3. Premeditated Body Language
Just like posture, body language has a powerful effect on the senses. You might ask why I refer to it as 'pre-meditated?' I call it this because body language is usually something you're unaware of. However, in the following techniques we kindly think about how we are going to use body language to influence and seduce men.
You can use body language to your advantage by echoing the movements of the man you're attracted to. If he looks in a certain direction, take a few seconds, then look in the same direction as him (this could also give you both another talking point in your conversation). Also, if he takes a sip of his drink, synchronize with him and take a sip of yours at the same time. You can also use your hands to rub or softly trace lines and circles on your glass, on the bar, your handbag or on either of your bodies. Only do this in nonsexual places, like his arm or tie (you want to be sexy, not tarty). Move slowly and gracefully in everything that you do. These tame, but flirtatious movements go along way to concreting your sexy mojo vibe. Tip: Do not play with or flick your hair too much. It does not project the desired sexiness and some men find it irritating.
Take pride in your appearance. You do not have to take on an exhausting beauty routine, though you must at least shower regularly and moisturize your skin. Usually the bigger the beauty routine, the better the confidence. Add a few little finishing touches here and there, week by week and see what makes you feel the most seductive. For example, use a scanned body wash or paint your nails.
Listen to what he is really saying and focus all of your concentration on him. Forget about "trying" to be accepted and making yourself look good. Stop talking, and let the spotlight fall on him. This does not mean you will not make any contributions to the conversation. It just means that it will not be so focused on you. Many males have the mistaken belief that women talk too much. Ask him questions about topics he's passionate about and slowly he will open up to you. If you take the time to listen to him, it will give you an element of mystery that will increase your sexiness. This is because most people can talk about themselves all day and when somebody else is interested, they immediately feel connected and more intimate with them. By doing this, you create the space for more sexiness to breed.
On the subject of breeding, I always struggled in my science classes when I was at high school. Even though I sucked at it, I did pick up something worthwhile. Here's a valuable chemistry lesson every woman should know. Pheromones are invisible secretions from our sweat glands that travel through the air and let men know that you are ripe and ready for breeding. These pheromones encourage attraction, intimacy and action! Some scientists believe oral contraceptives can interfere with your natural pheromones and change their quality.
If you're on the pill you could consider alternative methods of birth control and see if your sex appeal changes. But it's most important your method of contraception works effectively for you. There are natural alternatives you can try that will boost your invisible booty call. They include taking herbal supplements like zinc, sticking to a healthy diet, getting regular exercise and showering with no soap (as long as you do not get too stinky). There is also a range of products on the market that claim to increase your pheromones. Some of these perfumes, gels, oils, lotions and love potions are a little 'hocus pocus' so only choose reputable companies with proven results.
If sexiness was a diamond, self-respect is probably one of the diamond's hardest facets. Self-respect can be tough to build and does not usually just happen overnight. It can take a lifetime to develop and involves caring about yourself and acknowledging your worth on all levels. The best way to develop self-respect is to be true to yourself and your needs while still respecting the needs of others. Look after yourself and take care of your appearance because it will help you to build confidence. Another way to nurture self-respect is not taking criticism personally and not comparing yourself with others.
If you become jealous of someone else this can make you feel worthless in his or her shadow. The key is to celebrate their success with them and treat it as another source of happiness available to you. Be comfortable with yourself, rather than trying to impress others with fancy cars and accessories, etc. Look for the good qualities in everyone and they will be mirrored back to you. Why is self-respect sexy? It is the epitome of class that we all strive for, gives you a particular air of mystery and colors your mannerisms in an intoxicating way.
You might think that some of these ideas are unorthodox, but trust me when I say they've been tested on thousands of men with great success. Some elements of sexiness like building self-respect and self-confidence will take practice, but others are easy to gain like changing your post and improving your appearance. The more you work at it, the better results you'll get. Do not give up if you do not get a response immediately. Once you get the combination of these factors just right, 'Mr Right' is sure to come your way. On the road to finding (or keeping) your man, you may even discover you have gained something more valuable. You can not put a price on feeling happy, passionate, confident and positive about who you are and the life you are living. Every woman describes to feel sexy and so do you! So, go get em 'tiger …