To go down on a woman in a way that leaves her shaking, screaming, curling her toes and arching her back in the throes of ecstasy, is the response you want to get whenever you give her oral sex. That is, if you really wish to keep her satisfied for good.
If you want to learn how to go down on a woman that will give her mind-blowing, EXPLOSIVE full body orgasms, there are some oral sex techniques that you will have to master. That is, if you are ready to take her beyond the little moans and groans.
Just keep in mind that women usually won’t tell you if your oral sex performance is bad, because they don’t want to hurt your feelings and they expect you to be able to drive them wild with excitement, as their lover. If you can’t, rather than confronting you about it, a lot of women will prefer to just move on…
So, practice these 7 Sexy Secrets To Go Down Her and she’ll love you for it!
- Tease & Tantalize: Imagine that you are about to enjoy a delicious meal. Don’t just shovel the food hungrily into your mouth. Savor each moment and take your time. So when you go down on a woman, tease her a little. Make her squirm. Gently kiss the inside of her thighs and the top of her pubic bone. Use your tongue to just taste her, while quickly moving away to kiss her someplace else. Make her want your mouth on her so badly, that she’s arching her back and grinding into your face.
- Don’t just lick…Suck: Sucking, rather than licking a woman’s clitoris, gives women pleasure that is similar to when a man gets oral sex. If you really want to drive her wild, combine licking and some sucking when you go down on her. Alternate between the two and move to different areas to keep things hot and exciting.
- Watch & Learn: You want to watch your woman when you go down on her. Not just because it is arousing for you, but mostly, because you want to watch how she responds to what you are doing. You may move into one area and suddenly, her eyes roll to the back of her head and she gasps with ecstasy. If you’re not paying attention to her body language, you might miss out on the important queues that reveal her favorite pleasure spots.
- Talk To Her: Even though you’re busy, tantalizing, sucking and licking, make sure you periodically stop to encourage her to tell you, when she likes something. That way, you won’t have to second guess whether you are doing something right or wrong. She will TELL YOU! Ask her questions like, “Do you like that?”. Tell her to tell you when she loves what you are doing. Communication is very important to great oral sex.
- Fingers & Hands: You may want to start by slipping one finger into her vagina, while simultaneously sucking on her clitoris. If she’s really wet, you can try slipping in another and watch how she responds. Alternate from slow and deep penetration, to short and fast, depending on how she enjoys it most. Just ask her.
- Raise Her Pelvis: Place a few pillows underneath her to raise her hips. Have her pull her legs back and hold them with her arms. Or you can encourage her to move her hips, as you’re going down on her. When the pelvis is raised and she moves her hips up and down, it stimulates blood flow to her genitals that will give her quicker and more intense orgasms.
- Stimulate Her G-Spot: The g-spot is a spongy tissue that’s located about 2 inches from the front wall of the vagina. It’s slightly rougher to the touch and it’s about the size of a quarter. The most common way to stimulate the g-spot when you go down on a woman, is by using the “come hither” motion with your finger(s). A lot of women will have the sensation of having to urinate, when the g-spot is stimulated, because when it is aroused, it fills up with a fluid (similar to prosthetic fluid in men), which can lead to female ejaculation or “squirting” orgasms.
By the way, female ejaculation is very real and with the right techniques you can help a woman achieve it. That is, if you want to take her oral sex experience to the next level. And even though it might take some patience and practice, I promise you that giving a woman g-spot squirting orgasms will be one of the most rewarding sexual experiences not just for her, but you as well.