I'm guessing you are angry, hurt, confused, or all of the above. Your Ex Boyfriend split, and left you to pick up all the pieces. You might want to sit in your room and cry all day. Or maybe you are in the angry stage, and you want to go dump a drink on his head and slash his tires.
Take a deep breath. I'm going to tell you a healthy revenge tool. It is has been used by thousands of women to get under the skin of someone who rejected them. Here is what they did. They took all that emotional energy from the breakup, and used it to transform them into a New Woman.
Now, it may be difficult to find that ambition right now. There might be some roadblocks ahead. When women go through a terribly rough breakup, we naturally want comforting. Unfortunately, we may be used to going into our (ex) man's arms for that comfort, and now that is clearly not an option. Plus, he's the one that caused the discomfort in the first place!
Please seek out comfort amongst your good friends and confidants. They will be very important to you during this time. But be careful. It is also easy to seek comfort in unhealthy activities like getting plastered or eating way too much food or neglecting our fitness routines. None of these things will help you in the long run.
Be a Woman who found their best revenge! Take these negative and confusing emotions and energy imbalances you have, and turn it into something that will not only make your Ex look twice (with regret), but more importantly, empower You.
You can kill two birds with one stone. You can inflict "dumper's remorse" on your Ex, in a healthy way, and also make yourself hot! This is something you will be doing for yourself, your health, and most likely your new "hottie" waiting for you on the horizon.
Get a new hairstyle, go clothes shopping, get a makeover. All of these things are very fun to do. But to really have a true change from within to make you Extra Hot, you need to embark on a healthy eating and exercise plan. You can change your body from the inside out. And then if you combine your health plan with new clothes, hair, makeup, etc, the sky is the limit as to how hot you can really become!
This may sound artificial, but it is your time now. Go for it. I want you to fee good inside, and eating healthy and exercising will give you long-term comfort that temporary comforts can never give you. It will also be a magnificent move to make your Ex turn his head. And of course, you will pretend not to notice him!
Now, I'm not promoting you get all anorexic or over exercise. No, that is another denial method all in itself. I'm encouraging you to re-shape and re-think this break up. Maybe it has freed you to concentrate on becoming your Best and Hottest Self!