Men sometimes can be a little insensitive and self absorbed. They might be in a relationship but it will take them a little time to make the person in their life cared for. If you want to learn how to make your boyfriend care then read on to learn the tricks.
Have a life
Having a life means doing certain activities during the day that do not involve him. Please don’t put going to work in this category. Do a little creative thinking to find out what you would like to do. Could be learning a new sport or a form of dance or going for some theatre workshops? This will make you look like an interesting person, who is not jaded and will make him value you and care for you.
Make him feel special
You need to make him feel like you care for him a lot if you want the feeling reciprocated. So, make him soup when he is not well, offer to do his groceries if he is exceptionally busy with work etc. This will make him see how caring you are and will make him reach out to you.
Be concerned about him
Be interested and concerned about his life. If he has a big presentation coming up help him prepare, leave him an all the best note, be there for him on a day that has gone horribly wrong. All will warm him up to you and will make him care for you.
Be a confident person
Be sure of yourself and learn to value yourself. When you do that, people around you can see your self assurance and maturity. It is this maturity that you will be investing in the relationship and it will make your man care for you.
Make him a little insecure
Making him a little insecure is fair if you want to give him a little shake. Have a friend leave a message on the social networking site that you and your man use stating how beautiful you are looking or how amazing the time spent with you was. This will make him see the perfection in you that he has not been seeing so far.
Always speak your mind
Never be a yes man. A man will care for you only if he can value your opinion so don’t hesitate to call a spade a spade, voice your opinions or concerns. This will make him care for you.
Don’t tamper with his space
You really have to remain within your boundaries and never tamper with his space. Respect his space and he will begin to care for you.