Safe Sex is Good For You . . .
Safe sex is good for you – it’s official – medical science says so, everyone wants it and billions of dollars are made through talking about it and selling it in one form or another. However, in the world of bioenergy – where we look at what’s happening to your energy and how it affects your life – things aren’t quite so simple.
According to science, sex stimulates your hormone production, relaxes you, makes you happier and improves your health. But, the problem with biological or medical science is all the other things that are going on that it fails to notice because it isn’t looking for them or simply doesn’t have the means of finding them.
. . . Or is it?
Take Alison for example. She came to see us, suffering from depression, skin problems (dryness, rashes and itching) and fatigue, as well as work, relationship and money problems. She’d tried the usual solutions for her health problems but hadn’t experienced any improvements.
One way we look at any kind of human problem is in terms of the presence of foreign (i.e. other people’s) energies in the body. This is because, when your own energy is properly integrated, you don’t make choices that generate problems in your life. But when your energy is compromised by the presence of a harmful foreign energy (any energy not native to the body is toxic for it), you start creating future problems as a direct consequence of its damaging influence on your words, thoughts and feelings and thus on your life decisions. Although foreign energies are usually unfelt and unseen, they have an ever-increasing negative impact on most people’s life and awareness as time passes.
With one exception (see below), all foreign energies inevitably cause future problems for their ‘owner’ – and not just health problems. Because of the time delay between first receiving a foreign energy and the start of a future problem, it’s impossible to perceive with normal awareness or scientific tests, the connections between new problems and their original, energetic causes. Thus, foreign energies are not unlike invisible time bombs lurking inside you – often for years – before making their presence felt.
In Alison’s case, she had a foreign energy in her 6th chakra, which is found in the same area as the frontal lobes of the brain. This energy had a male polarity and had been there for several years. It was affecting Alison’s choices in areas such as diet, relationships, work, home environment and so on. She told us she’d had a brief affair almost five years previously, with a friend at work. Now that she thought about it, she’d first started getting rashes a year or so after the start of her office fling (the 6th chakra controls the health of the skin).
Having sex is the most invasive route for a foreign energy to enter your body. Even though your natural energetic immune system will eliminate most of your partner’s energy, some of it will remain behind. It will then start causing losses of energy from one or more areas of your life – your health, relationships, wealth, happiness, inner strength, etc. – depending on where it becomes stable. Your own energy – which enables your body, mind and life to function well – is displaced wherever a foreign energy stabilises in you.
Fortunately, Alison eventually overcame her problems by changing her life in ways that eliminated the foreign energy from her body. The changes she needed to make included moving to a place that was resonant with her energy and developing, with the aid of certain exercises and life practices, one of her innate but dormant abilities or “talents.”
Any Effective Remedy Must Eliminate the Underlying Foreign Energy
Of course, problems can often be overcome simply by taking the correct medication. But it’s true to say that any fully effective remedy for any problem – whether it’s a herb, an antibiotic or a therapy session – always eliminates the underlying foreign energy even though the doctor or practitioner will, more often than not, be completely unaware of it.
Having said this, the more energy aware you become, the easier it is to deal with the foreign energies underlying the challenges in your life. One good way is not to pick them up in the first place!
For example, in Hidden Secrets of Real Health (page 198), we describe a simple test for determining if your current sexual relationship is causing your body to accumulate a harmful foreign energy; or (the one exception) a foreign energy that is positively challenging.
A “positively challenging” foreign energy is energy received from someone else that provides you with more of the resources you need for developing your life, awareness and future well-being. This is the energy of an empowering heart [chakra] relationship. The heart chakra is an energy organ located at a slight indentation about two inches up from the bottom of your sternum. A “heart relationship” is so-called because it includes a resonance between two people’s heart chakras.
The heart chakra is sometimes called the “seat of the spirit within.” This is because those with sufficient energy awareness have observed over thousands of years, a very small yet very bright light at the central root of the heart chakra. This is commonly called the “spirit within.” And it is the only part of the human energy body that is invulnerable to foreign energies.
When a resonance exists between two people’s heart chakras, they have the innate capacity to rise to the challenges that naturally appear from time-to-time in any relationship. By appropriately responding to the challenges that appear, they become stronger and more integrated. Without a heart resonance, a relationship will eventually develop issues that cannot be resolved. Then it will either collapse or some issues will continue to poison or damage the relationship, and thus the people in it, no matter how long it may last.
Think Twice about Sex if you’re not in a Heart Relationship
If you aren’t in a heart relationship, you are better off without an intimate sexual relationship. That way you avoid accumulating life and awareness-damaging foreign energies. And you also increase the space in your life for an empowering relationship to appear in your future – which could be tomorrow!
If you are someone who is interested in developing your energy awareness or higher awareness to see beneath the surface of your life – so it doesn’t seem to just be happening to you much of the time – no form of sex is inherently “safe.” Effective traditional spiritual disciplines don’t advocate chastity because they suffer from some quaint sexual hang-ups but, rather, because people who’ve developed a real awareness of human energy can clearly see how it is so often adversely affected by sex.
So, in reality, “safe sex” is a somewhat misleading term. It may save you from some nasty physical bugs but not from the energetic ones. Think twice about sex if you’re not with someone with whom you have a heart relationship. This will never be a popular message, but you will have a brighter and better future in many ways, if you wait for an empowering heart relationship – and avoid the rest.
Lynda & Stephen Kane
The School of Energy Awareness