This article is about full body female orgasms. They have nothing to do with the small little moans and groans female orgasms. All women are capable of achieving these types of uncontrollable body shaking orgasms. Nevertheless very few actually do.
Let’s begin by introducing you to the different types of orgasms a woman can have. You’ll learn about a simple yet powerful technique you can use to give your woman a mind blowing very intense G-Spot orgasm.
You will also be introduced to female ejaculation or squirting orgasms, which are one of the most powerful orgasms any woman can ever have.
The Different Types of Female Orgasms.
There are two basic types of orgasms a woman can have – a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal orgasm.
A clitoral orgasm is the most common type of orgasm a woman experiences. It comes from direct stimulation of the clitoris.
This is also typically how a woman masturbates and experiences an orgasm during masturbation and it is also a very powerful way how we can give her an orgasm via oral sex when done correctly.
You may know that a woman’s tiny clitoris has as many nerve endings as a man’s entire penis. So, as you can imagine this area of her body is incredibly sensitive and when you stimulate it correctly you can give her a very strong orgasm.
However, the thing about clitoral orgasms is they’re more of a localized type of orgasm. Now don’t get me wrong, they’re still an orgasm and that’s OK. However, women describe the sensation of a clitoral orgasm as being more local to the genitals, and not so much as the full body experience that women can have from vaginal orgasms.
Another thing about clitoral orgasms is women are typically able only to have one orgasm at a time. The reason for this is after a woman has a clitoral orgasm her clitoris gets overly sensitive and sometimes almost sore, so it makes it difficult for you to go back and continue to stimulate her and give her another orgasms. Whereas with vaginal orgasms women can have multiple.
Intense Vaginal Orgasms
Vaginal orgasms come from direct stimulations inside a woman’s vagina via either the G-Spot or the A-Spot. Vaginal orgasms are more of a full body experience. And as we mentioned before a woman with vaginal orgasms is capable of having multiple orgasms. In fact, once you give her one vaginal orgasm she’ll become orgasmic and be able to have orgasm after orgasm after orgasm. And vaginal orgasms can also lead to female ejaculation also know as squirting orgasms, which we’ll cover in just a little bit.
Now, as powerful of a feeling it is for a woman to have a vaginal orgasm, sadly only 20% of women have actually ever experienced a vaginal orgasm. That means 80% of women don’t even know what it feels like to have a vaginal orgasm. And even more disturbing is 29% of women have never had an orgasm at all. Which is just mind blowing because can you imagine having sex and not having an orgasm? But sadly that’s the reality for so many women when every single woman is actually capable of having full body orgasms. This is why it’s important to educate yourself about female orgasms so you understand how to give them to your partner. It’s a chance to touch her in a way that no man has ever done before, and really if you’re the first guy to give her a full body vaginal orgasm she’ll love you for it.
How to Stimulate the G-Spot With Your Finger
You’re going to learn a simple G-spot orgasm technique and how you can stimulate her directly using your finger.
But before that, I want to make a couple of points first. Any time you penetrate a woman with your fingers like I’m about to describe make sure you always use plenty of lubricant. Even if you think she might be wet enough you’re going to be applying a lot of firm pressure so it’s always good to have a really good lubricant. I personally prefer to have 100% grapeseed oil. I’m talking about the food grade grapeseed oil that you can find at most grocery stores. I think it’s a great lubricant, it feels very natural. It’s very healthy for the inside of a woman’s vagina, and externally it makes a really great massage oil. So, it’s all around great! But grapeseed oil is not safe for condoms, so if you’re going to be using a condom for intercourse afterwords, make sure you use a water based lubricant. Something like Astroglide to add a little bit of lubrication. Hey, and I don’t sell Astroglide, in case you’re wondering.
Secondly, I want to make the point that any time you penetrate a woman with your finger make sure you have your fingers well manicured. This means cutting your fingernails very short. Make sure there’s no hang nails. Make sure there’s no rough skin on your fingers that could be too rough on the inside of the sensitive walls of her vagina.
Now, when a woman won’t let her man penetrate her with his fingers it’s generally because his hands are a little bit too rough, so it’s important to make sure you’re hands are well manicured.
The G-Spot is a part of the urethral sponge. It’s located one to two inches inside the vagina along the front wall.
The way to stimulate her to actually climax is to insert your middle finger first and locate her G-Spot. You’ll know you’re there because it has a spongy feeling, it has a kind of roundish shape. Once there, make a come hither like motion with your finger. Begin slowly and very gradually increase your speed and strength, responding to her reaction. After a while, take your finger out and insert two fingers this time, from her clitoris downward, to have more strength and save energy… your fingers will get tired doing this.
Now, every woman is actually different. Some women will respond to this technique very powerfully, and actually have an orgasm pretty quickly. But if she’s never had a vaginal orgasm, and as we talked about earlier, many women haven’t, it could take her a little while longer. It could take her almost 30 minutes to actually achieve a vaginal orgasm. So, you never want to go any longer than 30 minutes because while it may even feel good to her to have you 30 minutes in, the next day she could become very sore. So, never go longer than 30 minutes. But I point this out so you can realize that it can take a little while if she’s never had a vaginal orgasm before.
You know whats great? Once she understands what this feeling feels like. every time you stimulate her this way she’s going to know what’s she’s looking for and what it feels like and she’ll be able to come quicker and quicker each time.
How do you know that she’s actually had the orgasm?
When you’re inside stimulating her, at the time of orgasm you’ll feel the wall of her vagina come down and squeeze your finger, or your penis, at the time of orgasm. The vaginal wall will come down and almost flutter. Now, if she’s a woman who can ejaculate, she’ll ejaculate out of her urethra and you’ll see her body spasm uncontrollably and it will be very obvious that she’s having an orgasm. But not every woman is obvious when she has an orgasm. Some women have weak vaginal walls that won’t come down and grab your finger quite as much, so it’s a little bit harder to tell.
If you want to be absolutely certain whether or not she’s having an orgasm try this. Stick just the tip of your pinky inside of her anus and at the time of orgasm she’ll have a muscle contraction, and this is an involuntary muscle contraction that will squeeze down on your finger. And now you can be certain that she’s having an orgasm. but of course she has to be open to anal play in order to be able to do that.
OK, so that’s a basic overview of a G-spot and a real simple technique for you to get started with. As I mentioned earliest, vaginal orgasms can lead to female ejaculation or squirting orgasms. This is one the most powerful orgasms a woman can experience. It’s actually a full body experience with a release. But very few women are actually able to achieve these orgasms for a number of reasons. Actually many women don’t even know they can have these types of orgasms.
A little about what female ejaculation is…
Female ejaculation is when a woman actually comes so hard that she actually ejaculates during the time of orgasm.
This ejaculate comes out of her urethra, not from her vagina. Now, this means it’s coming out of her pee hole but it’s not pee. It’s actually the same consistency as male prostatic fluid because it’s actually coming out of the female prostate. It contains glucose so it has a little bit of a sweet taste.
But it’s certainly not pee. So as mentioned it comes from the female prostate which is also known as the Skeen’s gland or the periurethral gland, just different names for the same thing. It’s a gland that is actually a part of the urethral sponge of a woman and as you stimulate this side of a woman’s vagina the urethral sponge begins to swell up and begin to fill with liquid.
And once a woman orgasms that liquid gets pushed out of the female prostate down into the urethra and out during the orgasm. What often time happens is that the women who are lucky enough to have a vaginal orgasm will feel the urge to pee right before they have an orgasm. So what they’ll often times do is clench their PC muscle as if to hold back pee and the ejaculate has nowhere to go except back up into her bladder. When this happens she really only experiences one half of her orgasm than she could of, had she known to push it out. Once she pushes it out she’s going to experience the full orgasm and she’ll ejaculate and women can actually ejaculate quite far. It’s pretty amazing.
And then she’ll be able to have that release and experience the entire orgasm and feel it through out her entire body.
So that’s why it’s important to understand what a woman is actually capable of and educate yourself on how to to achieve these types of orgasms, so you can share them with your partner and absolutely blow her mind, and show her something that shes never even dreamt of.
OK, so this is just a great primer on female orgasms, and more than most guys know about how to properly stimulate a woman to give her a real orgasm. But the reality is this is just scratching the surface of what’s possible.