Why does flirting even exist? Well, flirting is the non verbal way of showing that you are a healthy and available creature to the opposite sex. And believe me: You want to know how to flirt with a girl the right way to get one.
Even though humans are the most complicated creature in planet earth, there are some things present in our behavior that almost happen unconsciously when we see a potential sex partner: Males arch their back and stretch their pecs, females touch their hair and lick their lips, just to name a few. Next, the actual flirtation begin, and you want to be very conscious of what you do, because you're sending signals of interest and at the same time conveying that you are a valuable male who can secure the survival potential of the female. And that's the key to attraction: Conveying that you're a healthy and dominating male that are able to protect the female from the dangers of the outside world.
A studied made in 1996 showed that 92.1% of women feel attraction towards men in the first 5 minutes of non verbal interaction. The men who were more successful in this stage were the ones who planned an alpha male behavior from the beginning and at the same time played a dominant role in the flirtation process.
According to this study, there were some common aspects in the way these men behave:
1. -They maintain longer eye contact with women.
2.-They showed leading conversation skills when talking to other men.
3.- They were generally louder in their interaction with other man for the sole purpose of being noticed by women.
The whole purpose of flirting is to advertise yourself. You do not want to be seen as a follower, instead try to show a leader behavior when you're noticing that a woman is watching, in that way, you are going to be seen as the more valuable guy in the group.
Remember, flirtation is only the first stage for building attraction, do it right and the next stages will be smoother, do it wrong and you'll have to seek another opportunity or stay single for the rest of your life. It's all about nature, but you can be aware of the signals you are sending. Play your cards right and you're in for a good time. Learning how to flirt is extremely important for your success with women.