Are you wondering what are the best opening lines for guys? Do you want to know how to pick up girls with a few carefully chosen words? As you read this article hopefully you will discover one thing, an opening line is very different to a pickup line.
Let's get this straight, I think you will find most pickup lines do not work. Sure they are good for a laugh and in the right hands they will raise a giggle from a cute girl, but that's about as far as it goes. You probably have about a 1% chance of getting this right and the other 99% of the time the pickup line will fall flat on its face and the lady will be completely unimpressed.
An opening line on the other hand is a little different. It does not have to be funny, it does not have to be cheesy and it does not have to be seductive. Sometimes completely honest opening lines can work very well. I have one friend that met his wife in a nightclub and his opening line was 'Hi my name is Rob, nice to meet you'. He held out his hand, she shook it and then he asked if he could buy her a drink.
She really liked his honesty and really liked that he was confident enough just to be normal. The rest as they say is history.
But what are the best opening lines for you to use?
This is a bit of a difficult question and I think it all depends on what type of person you are and the location you are in at the time. If you are in a busy bar, maybe a funny opening line could work. Of course you have to be confident to pull this off but humour is a great icebreaker.
What about if you are alone and you see a really nice woman walking down the street towards you. You know this is too good an opportunity to miss but what the heck do you say? Perhaps in this situation honesty might be good. Would it kill you to say 'Excuse me, I saw you walking towards me and I just had to speak to. I know it sounds crazy, but here's my number, I think you're gorgeous and I would love it if you called me sometime '.
What's the worst that could happen? She says no. Well then just carry on walking.
Best The opening lines for guys do not always have to be cheesy pickup lines. Maybe just a bit of humour or some sincere honesty will do the trick for you.