After the no contact rule and if your ex hasn’t contacted you, making the first step toward establishing contact will be up to you. By now, you should’ve heard about the Across the Bow Text from The Text Your Ex Back system by Michael Fiore. If you haven’t it’s suggested that you learn more about Across the Bow Texts.
But what if you sent an Across The Bow Text message and got no response from your ex? If you had Michael Fiore’s system you would know exactly what this means.
First off, let’s clear away some misconceptions about these so called Across the Bow Texts and reveal what they’re meant to do. Got your attention? Good!
This text message is the first initial message you’re going to send to your ex after the no contact rule is finished (in which you should already have a complete strategy in getting back your ex). This message is not the magical single message that’s going to get them running back to you.
Please get that frame of mind out of your head. Attracting your ex was a process, and re-attracting your ex is a process as well. Stop thinking that getting back your ex is just one magical thing to say or do to get them back. It doesn’t work that way.
Nevertheless, you have to find out where you stand with your ex after no contact. You have to find out where they are at. Are they ready to communicate with you again?
Well, that’s what you’ll find out with an Across the Bow Text message. You find out her level of interest and if she or he is ready to start talking to you again.
So what if an Across the Bow Text message you send gets no response from your ex? It means you need to give them more time and space. It means they’re not quite ready to interact with you yet.
One of the first basic rules of attraction is that you cannot convince someone to be attracted to you. This also means you cannot convince someone to interact with you if they have no desire to.
In the realm of getting your ex back, this means that you still need to allow more time for your ex to miss you and start leaning towards thinking of you positively again. Trying to force your ex to have positive thoughts of you will only make you more of a negative presence in their eyes. Why? It’s because you’ll become a nuisance!