Dominance is an essential part of male sexual power. All women deeply desire to surrender themselves to a dominant man. Without it, sexual excitement is hardly even existent. For most this concept is easy enough to understand. But to really incorporate dominance into who you are is much harder. You can’t just behave dominantly just because you want to excite your woman in bed; dominance is about being dominant as a person.
Because dominance is so important it will be the first thing you need to focus on as it influences all the other parts of having sex. Let us not forget that we grow up with the idea that women are little angels that want to make love, not fuck. However this cannot be further from the truth. Don’t believe me? Then read “My Secret Garden” by Nancy Friday. Even the most virtuous women have fantasies that can easily be a lot more bold then yours.
Due to society and social programming women need to put up this facade that will protect them from being labeled offensively. But let us not forget that women love sex, perhaps even more than we men do. Some women even experience this literally as a split within their personality.
Now why is dominance so important? It’s because it adds psychological stimulation which is way more important than physical stimulation. Psychological stimulation creates sexual tension while it also stimulates all kinds of emotions within a woman which will make sex that much more exciting.