It has been said that men are visual creatures. And the feedback from other people is that you are pretty. Yet, it seems that guys resist approaching you! I know how it can drive your heart and mind crazy at times when you see other girls, who are clearly less pretty than you, happily loved by their boyfriends. To help you regain your sanity and courage to venture into the dating world again, I have written this article about ‘Why Do Guys Avoid Pretty Girls’. Please don’t give up hope of finding everlasting love yet. If I can do it, so can you. Finish reading this article – because it could save you a lot of heartache and despair…
The biggest reason why guys avoid pretty girls is because men won’t approach a woman unless they think there’s a 75% chance that she won’t reject him.
I am not sure how well you know this, but the feeling of being rejected – by any woman, pretty or not, downright sucks. No guy in his right mind enjoys being rejected. That is why a guy will avoid approaching a pretty woman, unless he gets the feeling she will be open and receptive to his advances. By this, I mean that she communicates to the world, or to a guy in particular that she is friendly and safe to approach.
Unfortunately, the media makes it even scarier for guys to muster up the courage to approach pretty women. Haven’t you seen shows that portray pretty girls as mean girls? It does not matter whether it is true, or whether it has ever happened to a guy before. With some compassion, you can understand how a guy could easily imagine a pretty girl shaming or embarrassing him in front of a crowd. It is even more terrifying if a guy has already had negative experiences of approaching less pretty girls!
So how can a pretty girl give guys the courage to approach her?
The biggest tip I can give to solve the issue of guys avoiding you, is to cultivate a look that feels friendly to men in general. My personal secret is to smile from within. Learning how to smile from within is a skill ANY woman can acquire. But don’t be fooled into thinking that you can just plaster a fake smile on your face. If you do that, you run the risk of looking TOO approachable, which will attract all kinds of strange men to you. The trick is to figure out a way to genuinely share your gentle, soft, feminine side with the world, as much as you can. It took me a fair bit of effort to transform myself from within. It will take you some effort too. But I guarantee that it is more than worth it, when you find a man who loves, cherishes and never wants to let go of you, because you are so feminine!